Yesterday was the biiiiig day! My dad and Dana finally got married, and boy was it a lot of fun and stressful. Let's recap the week of preparations ....
Monday, while we still had the truck, Dad, Dana, and I finished unloading all my stuff (and a few of their items that just didn't have a home) into a storage place. It's not staying there permanently, just for the time being. We honestly can't afford $50.00-$100.00 a month just to store my junk. And I'm pretty proud if I do say so myself, there's really not that much there. We have a 10'x10' space that I filled maybe three quarters of the way. Considering most of that is occupied by a bed and 6 chair dining room table, I'm pretty proud to say my packrat days are looking brighter.
There's just so much stuff in the house though; we can't add more at the moment, even if it is only a little. Boxes from mom, Dana, the things left in my old room, Dana's mom after she passed away are scattered literally through out the house. I don't know how they've been able to repaint the house this past year. They literally have just a room full of boxes. As they need to paint the room with the boxes, they just pick it all up and put it in the next. Good news is the room painting is looking pretty good. Bad news is that it's taken like 8 months. But it's neither Dad nor Dana's fault. They guy they hired always seems to have some excuse for why he can't make it. They've probably heard every excuse in the book.
And of course, this means we spent most of the week trying to clean up the house since the wedding was held here in the backyard. I mean the last room literally was painted Sunday night (while I was in Richmond with Dad and Kyle). SUNDAY?!!!! Yeah. Oh well. So after we moved my stuff, we came home and spent the night playing AV nerd. My dad noticed that we never used our formal living and dining rooms. I mean who really does? They're not comfortable places nor are they designed to be. So he decided to make them just that, comfortable rooms. So we moved his big screen TV and surround sound stereo system into the former living room, and when the wedding's over and can sell the old dining room set, they're going to setup my table since it's much more informal. And in the old family room, Dana had setup the computer. This TV moving took us all night, of course. I mean the 60" (I think it's 60", maybe it's 54") is easy enough to move because it's surprisingly light for its size. But the sound system is such a p-a-i-n to setup. We were still fine tuning it on Friday.
Tuesday was spent moving anything without a place, upstairs. Basically, the thought was that if it rained on Saturday, these 80 some odd people needed someplace to go. So the downstairs needed to be at least somewhat presentable. Plus, our housekeeper Denise (we hired her to clean our house when my mom got sick and has since become a real family friend) was going to come in Tuesday and Wednesday to give the house a real good deep clean. I mean cleaning the carpets and everything. So we needed to do our part first.
Of course Denise didn't come until Wednesday (and thus also Thursday to clean the carpets), but that was ok. Those two days are such a blur; I can barely remember what we did. All I can remember though was we spent a lot of time in the car, running around town, buying this, picking up that. I mean Dad and Dana has spent a while planning and collecting what they could, but there's only so much you can do before hand. And our out of town help didn't really start arriving until Thursday. We did as much as we could, but I was glad when people started showing up here, even if I did spend all of Thursday afternoon driving to and from the airport.
Thursday and most definitely Friday, I spent cooking. Since I like cooking so much, Dana put me in charge of the food so to speak. Of course there was no way I did it all but I did my best to keep us on par with the plan. And I have to say, cooking for 80 people is a pain. Dana wanted a real casual meal for Saturday, so we made pulled pork (and of course coleslaw cause every good southerner has coleslaw on his pulled pork sandwich), pasta salad, garden salad, tiropita (literally in Greek it's cheese pie), relish tray of pickles and olives, and assorted nuts. Basically it was a picnic.
Mostly the salads and pork kept me busy because I had to cook everything in small batches and then find places to store them in the fridge. The pulled pork was pork tenderloin cooks with some seasoning in a slow cooker. So Thursday and Friday we had three slow cookers churning around the clock. And the pasta salad was real simple with some onion, carrot, and pepperoni added in for variety. Of course having one pot meant I could only make three batches at a time. So my eleven total batches took a while. And as for the tiropita, pita for short, if you aren't familiar with it, it's one of those traditional Greek foods that my family always has at just about everything. It's like the spanikopita (spinach pie) you get a Greek restaurants where a feta cheese and spinach filling is put between layers of filo dough only without the spinach. Hey I have nothing against spinach now, but when I was a kid I hated it! So we rarely make it with the spinach now. But I made the pita with Kyle, technically Kyle's the expert at making that, on Friday while we made all the out of town people keep asking us what smelled so good.
At least I didn't have to cook on Friday. My dad took all the family out to Brazas, a Brazilian Churrascaria. Braza's is neither a buffet nor are we strictly a sit-down restaurant. The meat portion of the meal is delivered to the table impaled on a 3-foot long skewer and carved directly onto your plate. Skewers of meat from steak to pork to turkey to lamb are constantly brought to the table through out the meal. There are also 2 buffets—one cold and one hot. The cold one primarily consists of greens, cheese, salads, melons, while the hot buffet is from their Indian restaurant, which shares the space. We had a great time with the two families and got home extremely full and happy.
That's all for now. When I get a chance, I'll post about the day itself with pictures!
PS .... On Friday I got a call that my visa had been approved and my passport was being sent back to me! Yay for getting to go to Sweden on time!